Wednesday, June 24, 2009

一个“迟到”的故事 翔斌(美莉)

各位亲爱的昔日同窗,先祝大家好!
在此想与大家分享一个生活中典型“迟来的祝福”
之故事,希望大家能拨冗洗耳恭听,一起成长一起学习...
在成长的过程相信大家都想成功、顺利和得到幸福,我也不例外。可是往往事与愿违,

你愈想 得到它,则远离愈远!

一九八八年、中六之后,因升不上大学,唯有向师范报名,完成成为导师的心愿。
可是内心 一直呐喊:“要继续深造!”结果就如前些日子与蕙云分享那样:
“在38年的年岁当中(尚未到生辰),竟然花了29年在进修与学习之中”,
这是预想不到的安排,却这样走了下去...

我的生命中好象跟“迟到”或“延迟”很有关连。例如:“我32岁才结婚,
34岁才生第一胎,38岁才完成手中博士论文的学位...”然而生活中不能多迟疑片刻,
路还是要走下去..., 结果与生命励志、辅导结缘,成了专业辅导员。
辅导他人的同时也在辅导自己,改善自己,努力向前进。
因此从事这行业,我的生命见证成了活招牌...,
因为这一切都来之不易...

在此想送一句话给各位昔日好友:“生命不怕迟,只怕没有开始。
”不要怕失败、失去,昨日的伤心,不愉快的经厉已经远离我们了。从此,
前面将有美好的标杆、康壮大道为我们喝采和鼓励...,因为,“成功”、
“幸福”永远属于勤劳,坚持的你。

你想更深认识自己吗?......

Sunday, June 21, 2009




Concert, prizes, cameroon and birthday....(4 years old...)














This is my hello kitty..







my apartment at cameroon...






Grace photos' gallery at straberry farm Cameroon




3 years old concert at USM






photo at fishery farm...



Grace photos gallery (2-5 years old)






at Fishery farm....










left: enjoy family trip at cameroon (2008)...
right: conducting LDP talks at primary school (2009)....








right: helping out Chung Ling alumni camp for university ex-students... (2006)



enjoy my sharing talks at various places...(cont...), from 2006 to 2009....











marriage talk at Penang Gerakan centre, 2006...



my various speech, conducting workshops, talks at churches, Baptist Teology Seminary (BTS), public, schools..etc....Among it, the most enjoyable is conducting counseling workshop at BTS for the past 2 years...I like those students that really willing to learn up...











Speech about BGR relationship at Zheng Guang church, Penang. (2008)

Saturday, June 20, 2009





sketch for our family photo during my convo...

left: at publishing book's day, took photo with students' reporter from Kwong Wah press...




New book publishing day (continue)...my colleagues, friends, students, relatives, parents, family members, in laws.... came and supported me....I t was really a memorable day in my life...











Attending Satir course at Penang with teacher Grace Yung from Hong Kong during 2005 and 2006...



Audience at my book publishing day...22th July 2007...as a good memory....

up right photo: sandtrap thrapy with my client, school students (2006...)




my personal photo taken at Botanical Garden 2007...Photographer is my hubby...
the right side photo: talk at my new book(communication skill with Satir model, my PhD research...)



publish my 3rd new book "Goodbye, my problems" during 2007...All my ex-girls came and supported...Tan Shiang-Shang (2003 counseling club ex-president)


This is the photo that Grace won the 1st prize at Oriental Daily press on 21th June 2009...What is next year celebration for papa...


Grace consert at Dewan Sri Pinang 2008...Now is busy practising malay dance...

enjoy holiday trip wuth Grace at Cameroon last year, 2008 after completed my 'hardwork'(Ph.D)....looking forward for another vocation....in future